Should You Listen What Others Tell You When Raising Your Child is in Question?

First thing that I would like to point to is that raising the child is the most difficult thing in the world. If you are the committed and devoted parents, you will find this out very soon after birth of your child. Everything that you do has the opposite effect from what you imagined it should be like and from what you wanted to achieve. Parents often do not know what to do any more, what is the right way to handle situations with their child so they search for some general rules. But can those rules be applied to every single child in order to achieve positive results?

When I watch movies, or listen to different stories from different people any place, any time, I always attend to try to use something from other people's experiences. However, sometimes it works and sometimes it does not. I struggle with finding the best solution for all sorts of situations and I cannot be sure that they are completely correct. But what gives us some sort of comfort is that we as parents are present in our children's lives all the time and we will stay as long as they depend on us.

It is always good to be sensible about accepting advices from other people. They do not know your child as you do. They do not know and feel what you do for your child so everything that someone tells you about your child's behavior, take with certain reserve. You are the one who decides what you will accept and what you will not because parents are the only ones who have their children's best interest in mind.

What is very important is that parents search for best solutions all the time. It is actually good to read a lot about how to raise children, how to handle different situations. As I already mentioned, others people experiences can help you big deal but only if you evaluate what can work for your child. Not one child is the same as another child so what works for one, does not apply for another.

We cannot know what life will bring tomorrow for any of us, but loving your children unconditionally and being present in their lives from birth to the day that they became independent is something that you can and should do regardless to what anyone thinks and says. Only under these circumstances, you can expect some positive outcomes.