How to Get Your Child's Attention When They Are Watching TV

Do you feel like you are competing with the television for your child's attention? You are not alone. When kids are watching TV, they typically become completely engrossed in the program and tune everything else out. There are some things you can do to win the battle for your child's attention.

Many times the child is not purposely ignoring you, they just do not have the brain function to devote their attention to two separate things. It is not necessary to shout at them in an attempt to get their attention. This may startle them or cause them to go into a defensive mode, and they will not hear you anyways.

Before you attempt to talk to your child, say their name. If they do not look at you, try stepping closer and saying their name again. If they see you, that may help break the tether to the television. Once that happens, you should be able to get their attention. It may also be helpful to tap them on the shoulder. Get down to their level as well. This is a sign of respect, and they will remember this gesture in the future when they want your attention.

If none of the above help you to gain your child's attention, you may need to put the TV on mute or turn it off all together. Give your child a few seconds to switch their attention to you before you begin speaking to them. Remember to stay calm, even though the whole incident may have frustrated you a bit. It was most likely unintentional and just a typical behavior in the developing mind of a child.

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